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Even though there's much more to us than our professions and lots of people don't define themselves by their jobs at all, many of us still begin date conversations with "What do you do?

Some bdsm club portland, particularly men, have even told me "What do you do? I can see how someone might ask that question with hints of classism, but for me, it has always been a way to say, "How do you spend your time?

Why don't I just ask people how they spend their time or what they're passionate about? Wouldn't that be a more direct way to learn about them?

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For me, that's the same as my profession, but for many, it's not — and if that's the case, I'd rather hear what keeps them up at night than what keeps them at a desk from nine to. Here are a few questions you can ask on a first date if you truly want to understand a romantic prospect, because I od we're all tired of what do you do for fun dating question our time on interview-like dates and small talk.

No matter what the answer, this question questoin follow-up questions.

Maybe they like their roommates now but their last roommate situation was a disaster, and you can chime whag with your own roommate horror stories. Perhaps they've recently moved back in with their parents, which provides the opportunity to ask about their family relationships and hear about their upbringing.

Or, it's possible they live with a to bbw or mature, which lets you ask for pictures.

And if they live alone, that's also a chance to go deeper: Do they get lonely? Afraid of the dark?

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Or do they just love using the bathroom with the door open? OK, maybe that last question isn't initial break-the-ice material.

Once you know what someone's living situation is like, you can ask where they live geographically. Presumably, you reside in the same city, so that city is a built-in datingg point. The question of how they like their neighborhood also opens up a can of worms: Did they like their last neighborhood better?

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Do they ever go questionn that cafe near them that you love? Does the train line they're near drive them as crazy as you?

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We all love to act like know-it-alls once in a. If you know something about your date's field, ask them for an expert's take on it. Or if you know nothing, ask them about the most interesting thing they learned.

You can also ask if they apply their knowledge to their daily questtion now, even if their profession seems unrelated, or for their take on a relevant current event.

Even if they hated their major and chose it due girls in northern ireland pressure from their parents, that's a topic of conversation. These questions can all get you beyond small talk if you ask them the right way. Obviously, you don't stop at "yes" or "no.

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If they answer "yes," you ask if they're close with their siblings. They might have some funny or revealing stories about. Then, the opportunity is ripe to ask if they're close with their parents.

See how this works? This not only tells you about your date but also might provide insights into your long-term compatibility. Are they aching to get out of the city like you, or do they love the hustle and bustle? Do they see themselves starting a family in the suburbs, or does the phrase "settle down" anyone horny in the newark area them with dread?

These are valuable things to know when evaluating a potential partner. OK, so it does help to ask "What do you do? But in my experience, that'll come up what do you do for fun dating question as you ask more substantive questions, if you don't already know from their online dating profile. Rather than simply finding out what someone does on a day-to-day basis, this question will tell you what does and does not interest them and what their dreams are for the future.

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If they don't like their job, find out what they'd rather do if there were no practical considerations. It's fun to share what our wildest fantasies are. Here's another work-related question that goes deeper than "What do you do? I know — this one isn't conventional, and you may have to get pretty comfortable with a person before you ask it.

But a fuj unconventional person asked me this on a gor date once, and I loved it. It was an invitation to confide in him, and we all want someone to confide in. Besides, who are we if we can't talk about our struggles? We aren't human horny women in McComas, WV we don't have struggles, but too often, first dates provide pressure what do you do for fun dating question pretend we don't. When you ask someone this question, you're conveying that it's OK to be real.

Just make sure you've reached the point where they'll feel comfortable answering. This question introduces the elephant in the room and also opens the door to forr more human side of you. If you met on a dating site, you can probably commiserate about a lot of common online dating experiences.

This might sound potentially uncomfortable, but it doesn't have to if you limit the discussion to the past.

It might even present the opportunity to laugh about first-date horror stories. Or, if you want to get really deep, you can steer it toward a discussion of past relationships. I've found that acknowledging you met on a dating site what do you do for fun dating question a lot of tension because you no longer feel like dl have to hide your situation.

Qkestion may even lead you both to admit how nervous or happy or ambivalent you are about the date taking place, which is always informative.

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Something important to me in a partner is that they've overcome adversity. I have, and I don't think someone who hasn't would really get me. The capacity to surmount hardship also shows strength of character what do you do for fun dating question ability to tackle the obstacles life throws at couples.

Talking about the challenges you've overcome will force you to let your guards down and become closer. Like the other deep questions, this questiom might not be ready to come out until you're really connecting, possibly on a subsequent date, but it'll hot horny women Felch Michigan off.

Small talk may seem safer than all these conversations, but fum also can be boring and doesn't always tell you what you need to know about a potential mate.

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Plus, what would you rather know: Even if a first date doesn't lead to anything, at least it'll provide a good time if you discuss something interesting. You might even come home with a new perspective on life, and that's worth breaking out of your comfort zone. Want more of Bustle's Sex and Relationships coverage?

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